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윤원식(1정)님의 글입니다. ><P> </P><!--StartFragment--> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">현실요법과 선택이론</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">김인자교수님 저서에서 발췌한 내용</SPAN><SPAN style="LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt"> </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"> <?xml:namespace prefix = "o" ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN style="LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt"></SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">상담 </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">코칭환경 만들기 </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">1) </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">친근감을 가지고 내담자의 이야기를 경청한다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">내담자가 그들의 욕구를 충족할 </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">수 있는 바람직한 방법을 찾는데 도움을 줄 수 있는 사람이라고 믿게 한다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">. </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">2) </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">내담자의 과거사가 </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; COLOR: #c23e9a; mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">현재상황을 설명</SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">하는데 도움 되지 않는 한 이야기하는 것을</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">허용하지 마라</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">. </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">3) </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">내담자의 느낌이나 신체반응을 전행동과 분리시켜 논의케 하지마라</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">. </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">내담자의 직접통제가 가능한 현재의 생각과 활동요소들과 연결시키도록 한다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">4) </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">무책임한 행동에 대한 변명을 허용하지 마라</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">. </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">특히 약속한 것을 이행하지 않은 자기선택과 책임을 연결시킨다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">. </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">5) </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">벌하거나 비판하지 않으면서 내담자의 행동선택에 대한 필연적인 결과를</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">깨닫게 하라 </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">[</SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">권장사항</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">] </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">주의를 기울이는 행동하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(use attending behavior) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. AB</SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">법칙을 실시하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Practice the AB-CDEFG) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">- </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">항상 침착하고 예의바를 것</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Always be calm & courteous) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">- </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">항상 신념을 가질 것</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Always be determined)</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">- </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">항상 열정적일 것</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Always be Enthusiastic)</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">- </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">항상 확고할 것</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Always be firm) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">- </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">항상 진실하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Always be Genuine) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">판단을 보류하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Suspend Judgement) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">예상하지 않은 행동하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Do the unexpected) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">건전한 유머 사용하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Use</SPAN><SPAN style="LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">Humor) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">자연스럽게 상담하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Be yourself) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">자기 자신을 개방하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Share yourself) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">은유적 표현에 귀기울기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Listen for Metaphors) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">주제에 귀 기울이기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Listen for Themes) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">요약하기와 초점 맞추기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Use Summarize and focus) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">결과를 허용하거나 떠맡기기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Allow or Impose Consequences) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">침묵을 허용하기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Allow Silence) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">윤리적이기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Be Ethical) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">[</SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">금지사항</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">] </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">내담자의 변명을 받아들이지 않도록 할 것</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Don't accept Excuse) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">내담자를 비판하거나 처벌하지 말고 논쟁하기 말려 내담자의 행동결과에</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">책임지도록 한다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">.(Don't Punish, Criticize, or Argue : Allow </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">Consequences) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">0. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">내담자를 쉽게 포기하지 마라</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">(Don't Give up Easely) </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P> ><P class=0 style="TEXT-AUTOSPACE: ; mso-pagination: none; mso-padding-alt: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">[</SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">출처</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">] </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">현실요법에서 상담환경 만들기 </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 함초롬바탕; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; mso-font-width: 100%; mso-text-raise: 0pt">_ </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 함초롬바탕">현실요법과 선택이론에서 발췌</SPAN></P>