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ºÎºÎ°¡ °ËÀº ¸Ó¸® ÆĻѸ® µÇµµ·Ï(so long as a married couple both shall live) °áÈ¥ »ýÈ°À» À¯ÁöÇÏ´Â(have a marital life together) µ¥´Â ¾Æ³»ÀÇ ¼º°ÝÀÌ °áÁ¤Àû ¿ªÇÒÀ» ÇÑ´Ù´Â(play a crucial role) ¿¬±¸ °á°ú°¡ ³ª¿Ô´Ù. ¹Ì±¹ ¹öŬ¸®´ëÇÐ ½É¸®Çаú Á¶±³¼ö(an assistant psychology professor) ¸®¾Ø ºí·ÎÈå ¹Ú»ç ÆÀÀÌ 1989³â ÀÌÈÄ ºÎºÎ 156½ÖÀ» °üÂûÇÑ °á°ú, ¾Æ³»°¡ ºÎºÎ ½Î¿ò ÈÄ »¡¸® È­¸¦ °¡¶ó¾ÉÈ÷´Â(calm down quickly after a marital row) ¼º°ÝÀÎ Ä¿ÇÃÀÌ ¹é³âÇØ·ÎÇÏ´õ¶ó´Â(share the happily married years together) °ÍÀÌ´Ù. 

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